Youth Without Youth
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IMDB rating: 6.50 Plot: 1938, Romania: at 70, a professor of language and philosophy, Dominic Matei, contemplates suicide: the love of his life is dead, and he remains unable to complete his life’s work on the origins of language. Then, he’s struck by lightning. After a slow recovery, he grows younger. He must now avoid Nazis, who want to study and experiment on him. Some years later, he meets a young woman who has her own passage through a lightning storm. Not only does Dominic find love again, but her new abilities hold the key to his research. Is the sweetness of life finally at hand? |
Actors: Roth Tim,Bruno Ganz,Hennicke Andre,Iures Marcel,Pintea Adrian,Piersic Jr. Florin,Butuc Zoltan,Albulescu Mircea,Astileanu Dan,Balint Cristian,Bucur Dragos,Damon Matt,Drama,Romance,Thriller,
Should I stay with him or must I cheat on him?
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half - although he is lovely and I love him so much, I can’t help but feel like I’m wasting away my youth. We argue often and it can become very fierce and angry. He doesn’t understand that I need my own time with friends without him there and I apparently leave him "hints" instead of telling him something which I later get upset about. Although we always make up after arguing, I can’t help but feel wistful. One of my best friends who I have known for a couple years - I find myself attracted to him. I started to know him at the same time as I started going out with my boyfriend so these feelings have been going on for a long time, however they’re getting stronger over time. My boyfriend doesn’t like him and I can understand that - but I can relate so much to this friend: I understand his feelings and thought process, I am one of the few people who know how to calm him down and cheer him up and we have both admitted we find each other cute. This friend has had a string of relationships and something he said struck me, his grandma had told him to not take life seriously till he is older, to have fun and mess around while he can. I have thought about this and found it to be true: as much as I love my boyfriend, I panic when I think of looking back on my life and only been with one person throughout my whole life.
I’m really unsure what to do. I have met up with this friend before but I didn’t cheat on my boyfriend - we went for a walk and talked about trivial funny things instead. I want to keep my boyfriend but have fun flings with other lads at the same time, I know this isn’t possible unless I cheat on my boyfriend but I really don’t want to do that, as I can’t bear to hurt him.
Any advice on what to do please?
just break it off that is a bad relationship
sean243 | Feb 03, 2010
NO! you dont cheat! thats wrong!!!!!!
Loretta | Feb 03, 2010
Believe me, I have cheated before and there was nothing in my life that upset me more, that I hurt someone I loved. Its so much better to end a relationship, or take a break rather than cheat. Sit your boyfriend down and tell him exactly how you feel, and if he doesn’t fix it then move on. If you aren’t happy, I guarantee he isn’t either. If he doesn’t make an effort, it should be that much easier to move on.
Don’t lose your friendship over something like that either.
Robyn | Feb 03, 2010
You obviously don’t have any genuine loving feelings for your current boyfriend. I have no idea what it is that’s kept you together, unless you just needed to be in some kind of relationship, no matter how meaningless.
For his sake, move on and let him down as easily as you can. Infidelity is devastating to the person being cheated on… and for the one doing the cheating, if that person has any sense of honor or shade of ethics, he/she will feel guilty and uncomfortable sneaking around, which kind of negates part of the "good feeling" of whatever cheating is being done.
Don’t kick you boyfriend in the nuts. Be honest with him, even if you can’t think of anything that isn’t harsh. It’s still better than infidelity.
Mark V | Feb 03, 2010
you don’t love him hun. if you did you wouldn’t want to be with anyone else and you wouldn’t worry about spending your whole life with this one person. you need to get out before you hurt him. im 21 and ive been with my partne for 4 years and have 2 kids together he is my first and only serious relationship and i don’t care if he’s the only person i spend the rest of my life with. because i love him.
$inn3r & $a1nt | Feb 03, 2010
If you want other experiences with other guys it would suggest to me that you don’t love him so you may as well set him free and do what you want elsewhere………………
trish s | Feb 03, 2010
cheat always cheat, its not cheating if you dnt know there name, also if there the same sex its not cheating, or if you under the influence, or if your just freinds with the person or if its in a car, and its not cheating if you go in a hole other than the pink one
L.o.k. | Feb 03, 2010
cheating on your boyfriend is never a good idea obviously. If you have strong feelings for this friends, and you are having strong doubts of your relationship, maybe it is time to call it quits, i went through exactly the same thing your going through now, but i decided my boyfriend meant to much to me…maybe you should sit down and have a think about what you want, how much you really love your boyfriend and just think about life without him…if you find it to painful…then you want to be with him, but if you decide you really want to be with your friend, then dont hold back, your only hurting yourself and potentially hurt your boyfriend more if you decide to leave him a few months down the line. Dont drag it out, but dont rush it…i dont know if that makes much sense. Maybe have a chat to your boyfriend, tell him your doubts and how you feel about all the arguing and fighting, maybe you can improve your relationship thus saving it, or you might find he has been thinking the same or that you want to be with your friend. Trust me cheating is not a good idea, been then, it causes so much pain, just think if your boyfriend had cheated or was thinking what your thinking now, it would kill you, so for his sake and yours, make your decision. Dont lie to yourself. Good luck x x
Ellen | Feb 03, 2010
I know you really care about your boyfriend but if you are interested in other guys then your not meant to be in a relationship and that’s okay. You just want to explore your options and have some fun. If you and your boyfriend were meant to be y’all will get back together again. Trust me i just went through this and now im single and ready for some fun.
Isi | Feb 03, 2010
My advice is to end the relationship.
I got married at 21. I’m 36 now. I love my wife dearly, but, we had some fundamental differences that I thought we could live with. We spent years trying to fix it, but eventually, it corroded all the other good feelings. Now we are facing a divorce because I/we chose to ignore a fundamental difference between us. If it is a fundamental difference … it won’t change, it won’t get better. You might be able to fake it or live with it for a while, but in the end, it will catch up to you.
Sorry for being so blunt, but, I’m a proponent of making sure your life-partner matches you in the basics. The details, you can work out as you go - but you need to be fundamentally compatible.
jsmlstmch2 | Feb 03, 2010
I didn’t need to read beyond "He doesn’t understand that I need my own time with friends without him there" to advise you to dump his codependent controlling a–.
Jonathan | Feb 03, 2010
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